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Relationships: Are Friends The People That We Have In Our Life Who Undermine Us?

Wed, 20 Jul 2016 10:49:19 -0500

When it comes to the kinds of relationships that one has with others, they could find that they experience intimacy with some of the people they know. As a result of this, their life is not going to be full of surface level connections.


Private Vs Sneaky - What Is Your Character?

Tue, 07 Jun 2016 15:31:58 -0500

I am a very private person. I dated a man that claimed that he was a very private person as well. The only difference that separates us when talking about privacy was our character. Character is often explained so clearly as... "it's what you do when you think no one is looking." I can honestly say that there is really nothing that I did while we were together that I could not openly discuss with him. Unfortunately, I can't say the same for his actions during our eight year relationship. Private to him is having many "secret" relationships (many were sexual too), not-disclosing or even acknowledging his relationship status on Facebook (eight years, not a picture of me and him insight anywhere), establishing online dating accounts and online relationships (every time we get into an argument), etc. I do not have a name. I do not exist. If you are truly in love, would you not profound the love of your life? Today's social media makes it difficult to have a one-on-one relationship. You are in constant competition of the "likes" and as a woman, I can not compete with your 1,879 FB friends. And when caught, it's the "I am a man" excuse. Because you are a man gives you the right to have sexual relationships and make it excusable?


Relationships: Is It A Form Of Indirect Revenge When Someone Always Criticises Others?

Thu, 21 Jul 2016 15:44:24 -0500

If someone was to think about what their friends are like, they may start to think about how supportive they are. These are then going to be the kind of people who are life-affirming, and it could then be said that that they have the right people in their life.


Relationships: Why Do Some People Find That Other People Are Never There When They Need Them?

Fri, 11 Mar 2016 07:49:43 -0600

If one needed something, they may find that there is someone who they can call on to be there for them. In fact, there could be a number of people who would be only too happy to support them.


Forgiveness - Cheque, Savings, or Credit

Fri, 20 May 2016 06:08:49 -0500

Dealing with conflict can be as simple as thinking through how to pay for the trouble conflict brings. We might think, "Why should I need to pay? I did nothing to create this mess I'm in." Whether that's true or not is irrelevant - this situation of conflict is what it is, and there's no skirting around it as if we could pretend it wasn't there. It's there, and it's up to us to sort it out. If we won't nobody else will do it for us.


Why Forgiveness Is All About Justice

Mon, 16 May 2016 06:15:51 -0500

FROM the viewpoint that forgiveness isn't about justice at all, this article takes the mirror image view - forgiveness is all about justice, and nothing else. Because God forgave humankind, showing bearers of His glorious image how to interrelate, we ought to respond in kind.


Diagnosed or Undiagnosed Personality Disorder Might Harm Your Relationship(S) - What Should You Do?

Thu, 28 Jul 2016 11:49:54 -0500

If, in spite of your many attempts to develop a good intimacy you fail time and again, it might be that you behave in your relationships in self-sabotaging ways (such as: having unstable moods; extreme reactions; often being too angry, making irrational decisions, etc.). When these happen, you might blame your partner for "making you" behave that way. However, if you exhibit the same behavioural, emotional and attitudinal patterns time and again, unwilling to see your part in sabotaging your relationship(s), it might mean, among other, that you might suffer from some (diagnosed or undiagnosed) personality disorder you don't seem to be able to control, which causes you to behave in these self-sabotaging ways. Learning what it is that causes you to behave the way you do will enable you to take control and become able to (finally) develop a healthy and successful intimacy.


Presenting a False Image of You Is Counter-Productive for Having a Successful Intimate Relationship

Fri, 08 Jul 2016 06:46:45 -0500

Many have created a false image of themselves with which they walk around, without realizing the heavy price they pay for doing so. Taking off the mask requires the courage to be authentic and true to yourself and to others. You can then approach relationships with an honest, true image of yourself and become able to develop a loving, caring and mutual intimacy.


Can Being Emotionally Disconnected Stop Someone From Having The Need To Experience Intimacy?

Mon, 07 Mar 2016 06:46:24 -0600

While there are some people who experience deeper connections with others, there are others who don't. This means that the interactions that they do have with others will generally be surface level.


Relationships: Do Some People Only Talk To You When They Want Something?

Fri, 03 Jun 2016 13:36:52 -0500

Although relationships can be based on give and take, they can also be out of balance. When this happens, one person can give and another person can take, and this is going to lead to problems.


When the Conversation Stops at 'How Are You?'

Tue, 07 Jun 2016 11:03:17 -0500

Fellowship has its barriers within any community of care. But this could be the chief of them. It begins as the very first words are uttered from the mouth of a would-be, could-be, or sadder an actual, friend. Those words are, 'How are you / going?'


What a Success

Wed, 25 May 2016 08:58:37 -0500

It was good to see the Hairy bikers organizing "old school", what a great idea to bring together youngsters and senior citizen. How they both benefited, both gaining confidence, the elders feeling needed and the vulnerable youngsters feeling support and caring. Both gained from giving and receiving.


Intimacy: Can Someone Let Go Of Their Fear Of Intimacy By Changing Their Behaviour?

Mon, 22 Aug 2016 09:09:37 -0500

While there are some people who are able to experience intimacy, there are others who are unable to do so. As a result of this, it could be said that that their relationships are going to be extremely different.


A Power We All Wield, Yet So Often Don't Understand

Tue, 12 Jul 2016 08:30:39 -0500

OH HOW much power we each have! We don't know or realise, most of the time, just about every given moment, our influence. Without even trying, we, 'the powerless', wield such great power. Power of the tongue, influence through action and inaction, the choice of acceptance and rejection, actors for impact every interactive moment of our lives.


Forgiveness Within a Broken World

Mon, 16 May 2016 06:29:45 -0500

FROM where we've come from, we've spoken a lot about forgiveness being an act of obedience over justice, that it's not about justice at all, and yet that it's all about justice. Those three previous articles have presumed that forgiveness is an-easy-to-understand transaction. To a point, it needs to be. Forgiveness needs to be about obeying God, and not haggling about justice.


Relationships: Do Some People Get Back With Their Ex In Order To Avoid How They Feel?

Mon, 18 Jul 2016 08:05:40 -0500

When a relationship comes to an end, one can experience a sense of relief, and this can mean that they won't feel the need to get back together with the person they were with. Even so, this doesn't mean that the other person is having the same experience.


Trust - Difficult to Get and Keep

Mon, 08 Aug 2016 12:30:36 -0500

Often I hear clients state "I just don't trust him (her)". My response is "To do what?" 1.


How Getting Close to People Forces Us To Grow

Mon, 18 Jul 2016 11:10:07 -0500

PAULINE and Geraldine met at church one day. They seemed immediately to have much in common. Both had a baby and another child each under six. And their respective husbands, Brice and Doug, seemed to get along together as well. Both families spent much time together over the ensuing five years, at church, in each other's homes, serving others for Christ together, and serving and loving each other. Both couples were active in their serving within their church, much to the extent that between the four of them they were nearly three fulltime equivalent pastoral roles (senior leaders) on the church staff. Each couple was not only an ideal complement for each other, but both couples were an ideal complement for their church. Everything worked so well. And, best of all, the church was growing in reach into the community, and in spiritual depth.


Rakshabandhan - A Ritual of Love Between Brother and Sister

Fri, 12 Aug 2016 12:09:29 -0500

"Rakshabandhan" or "the tie of protection" is a very pious festival of India. It has been in practice since the ages. This festival helps us to nurture family bonds and our moral duties towards our close ones.


Has Humaneness Walked Out on Us?

Mon, 25 Jul 2016 10:45:06 -0500

A human is said to be humane if the human displays tenderness, compassion and sympathy for fellow humans. It is evident from the events and incidences around us that one can be human and not be humane. How and when did some humans stop being humane?


Relationships: Do Some Websites Condition People To Believe That All Men/Women Are The Same?

Thu, 25 Feb 2016 09:33:38 -0600

In today's world, it is incredible easy for someone to learn about something, and this is largely due to the internet. The only thing they need in order to access all the information they could ever need is to have some kind of device.


Choosing a Partner or Escaping Into the Relationship: The Difference Makes You Happy or Tormented

Thu, 28 Jul 2016 06:45:34 -0500

There are many who decline and deny - to themselves and to others - that they are with a partner and in a relationship which are not for them. However, even people who are unaware can not cheat themselves (and their partner) all the time; can not continually pretend that "all is right" in their relationship; can not repetitively come up with one thousand and one excuses to justify staying with a partner who is not for them and in a relationship that doesn't bring them happiness. So why do they stay?


Why Forgiveness Isn't About Justice At All

Mon, 16 May 2016 06:16:12 -0500

Relationships do not work on principles that can be weighed. There is rarely the point of right or wrong in relationships. There is no black and white in relationships, only myriad shades of grey. It's because of perceptions... and points of view... which are all different... and differing values mean we apply differing weights of importance to the same matters.


Forgiveness - As Simple As Forgetting About Right and Wrong

Thu, 19 May 2016 11:37:57 -0500

Some time ago I learned a painful but fruitful lesson - people, all people, are sinners, and I cannot expect perfection from any of them, even of those who are mature in the faith. I cannot even expect them to behave 'morally' (it's impossible to settle on an ethic that could be fairly and agreeably applied). We're all corrupt. And this is wonderful news; we're all benefactors of God's gracious forgiveness as an example of the forgiveness we're to graciously bestow.


Everything in the Law Code Sums Up to Love

Mon, 25 Jul 2016 10:44:49 -0500

Death and destruction are on rampage, from town to town, city to city and from country to country. Switch on to any news channel, you are informed of one chaos or another; one tragedy or another. People gather face to face, on social media or phone calls discussing: "What is going on? Death is on the loose like never before"


Life Is a Journey, Not a Destination - Live Out Loud!

Tue, 21 Jun 2016 13:21:12 -0500

Life is a journey and not a destination. The goal in life is not to rush to the finish line, but to enjoy every step of the journey as much as possible along the way.


Rain, Rain Don't Go Away

Tue, 16 Aug 2016 08:53:44 -0500

Monsoon, the romantic season. I always find monsoon to be the most passionate and romantic season. Love, romance, passion, crazy thoughts all jumbled together all over my mind. Yes, my inner romance comes out in the form of a poetry or story. I feel like falling in love once again whenever it rains. Falling in love with whom? Of course, the beautiful blue sky filled with luscious dark clouds filled with water. The Peacock spread its beautiful feathers at the glimpse of the dark clouds giving away the message of monsoon. The fresh green grass all over the earth feels like Mother Nature giving birth to the new saplings. The pretty little flowers look charming in the arms of green grass as if made for each other. Obsessed with the beauty of nature my heart goes crazy feels like flying high in the sky.


Relationships: Why Do Some People End Up Feeling Needy When They Get In Touch With Their Needs?

Mon, 04 Apr 2016 06:21:31 -0500

Although having needs is part of being human, it doesn't mean that everyone is in touch with them. There will be some people who are in touch with their needs, and there will be others who are not.


The Transformation That Lasts Into Eternity

Thu, 24 Mar 2016 13:34:06 -0500

Manufacturers of cosmetics promise their products can transform an individual's looks. The transformation they offer is usually temporary, and requires daily re-application. The Bible promises transformation into the image of God through faith in Jesus Christ. This change is forever. He brings us from the devil's kingdom of darkness into His kingdom of light. Call on Jesus today!


Relationships: Why Are Some People Only Attracted To People They Can Overshadow?

Wed, 25 May 2016 06:20:57 -0500

While some people end up with people who on a similar level, there are others who end up with people who are not. As a result of this, not everyone is going to be drawn to people who are as developed as they are.


Attachment Theory For Adults and Couples

Wed, 30 Mar 2016 10:21:52 -0500

Attachment theory can be studied and dissected in a multitude of ways, but in its simplest form, it is described as a way to showcase the dynamics of interpersonal relationships between humans. This can start from parent-child relationships, friendships, and of course, romantic relationships. There are typically four sides to attachment theory that most models use to define it: Secure, Preoccupied, Dismissing, and Fearful.


Change Can Be a Daring Adventure

Tue, 09 Aug 2016 09:39:43 -0500

Letting go gives us a lifeline for the most profound shift to happen. Going from the predictable, safe and comfortable to the scary, challenging, uncertainty of the unknown.


Relationships: Does Your Partner Try To Stop You From Seeing Your Friends?

Mon, 22 Aug 2016 06:49:48 -0500

When one is in a relationship, they are likely to have less time to spend with their friends. This is because when they are with someone, they are going to spend a lot of their time with them.


Intimacy: Can We Get People To Open Up By Criticising Them?

Tue, 19 Jul 2016 07:48:00 -0500

When it comes to the kinds of relationships that one has with others, they could find that they experience intimacy with some of the people they know. As a result of this, their life is not going to be full of surface level connections.


Relationships: Why Are Some People Only Attracted To People Who Need To Be Rescued?

Fri, 26 Feb 2016 13:50:12 -0600

If one was to come across a magazine or a newspaper, for instance, they may be told that if they are a man, they will be attracted to a certain type of women and vice versa. For example, when it comes to women, it is likely to say that their hip to waist ratio is important, and for men, it could talk about the importance of height.


Relationships: Can The End Of A Relationship Trigger Someone's Childhood Pain?

Tue, 26 Apr 2016 09:23:47 -0500

When a relationship starts, there is the chance that one will experience a lot of pleasure, and then as time passes, this could change. This is not to say that this will go from being a something that has a positive effect on their life, to something that has a negative effect.


Six Paths to An Outcome

Thu, 14 Jul 2016 08:32:51 -0500

CHANGE affects us all in different ways, but just the same, we respond to change in much the same way. But our responses are not set for life. Our responses to life's difficulties and disappointments are our responsibility to control. We have the ability to respond well.


10 Signs You're Becoming the Best of Strangers

Mon, 18 Apr 2016 06:40:41 -0500

There are signs that you're a committed couple; you know each other's favorite foods, favorite places, interests, goals, likes and dislikes. When things are in motion to becoming a couple learning more about each other is vitally important; when you're growing apart, there are different signs. You're becoming strangers to one another. How can you recognize when this is happening to your relationship?


Relationships: Do Some People Only Know Who They Are When They Are Rescuing Others?

Wed, 29 Jun 2016 06:49:54 -0500

When one generally ignores their own needs and focuses on other people's needs, they can be described as someone who rescues others. As a result of this, it is going to be normal for them to neglect their own life.


Independence You: How to Free Yourself for a Successful and Loving Intimate Relationship

Thu, 30 Jun 2016 09:38:41 -0500

It is when you free yourself and your approach to intimacy from a strength, rather than from a weakness (i.e., driven by fears and needs), that you stop letting yourself fall into relationships which are not for you, and become able to develop a successful, loving relationship.


Emotional Compatibility Matters

Wed, 29 Jun 2016 11:44:39 -0500

Have you ever put time, effort and love into a relationship but still it fails? Try as you may nothing you do seems to rekindle the hopes you had invested in the partnership. This is a common situation which may prove very confusing and leave you feeling inadequate.


Pros and Cons of Dating and Marriage

Fri, 26 Aug 2016 07:04:51 -0500

Someone likened dating and marriage to a road trip! The reasoning is obvious; planning and execution are needed to make a success of any venture. While dating it is necessary to be cautious and careful giving considerable thought and attention to where it leads, it is the same with marriage, being well-informed, prepared and aware of the pros and cons is absolutely vital.


Why Do People Find It Difficult to Give?

Wed, 04 May 2016 07:31:02 -0500

It is said that it is better to give than to receive. Yet most of us find it difficult to give. Can I tell you why?


Resolve or Regret

Mon, 08 Aug 2016 10:42:34 -0500

So many people have regrets. They feel sad, guilty or disappointed about the way things turned out and blame themselves for doing or not doing something that would have resulted in a different outcome. Their lives are tainted by thoughts of the past and "what if".


In Case You've Ever Wondered

Mon, 22 Aug 2016 14:19:25 -0500

You know the lights will dim eventually and I knew that would happen to us too. From the very beginning we know things will be temporary but that doesn't mean it makes it less meaningful. It took me a long time to realise that we were probably not meant to be together.


Intimacy: Why Do Some People Open Up To People Who Will Shame Them?

Wed, 20 Jul 2016 08:50:34 -0500

While one can share their life with people who support them, they can also be in a different position. As a result of this, the people they are closest to could be the ones who hold them back.


Relationships: Do Some People Avoid Relationships In Order To Avoid Themselves?

Wed, 11 May 2016 16:00:10 -0500

If someone was to come across two people who want to be in a relationship, it would be easy for them to assume that they are both in the same position. On one level, it could be said that this is the case; however, if they were to look a little deeper, they might find that there is more to it.


Relationships: Are The People Who Rescue Others Healthier Than The People They Rescue?

Tue, 31 May 2016 06:32:26 -0500

While someone could be in a position where they have saved a number of dogs from drowning, it could go even further than this. Perhaps they also work in the fire service, and have then stopped a number of people from losing their life.


A Sense Of Belonging Is A Sense Of Acceptance

Tue, 08 Mar 2016 06:43:27 -0600

How often have we ever felt so lost and insecure? Not many times perhaps, but at least once in a life time--we do. When in the midst of an ocean of uncertainties, face with an unknown & unexpected circumstances or crisis, we cannot help but feel so insecure, lost and anxious... wondering where is our sense of belonging?


The Mask You Wear to Succeed in Relationships Is the One Which Makes You Fail Time and Again

Tue, 05 Jul 2016 06:46:35 -0500

If you are one of many who have "created" an un-true image of themselves, it is likely that you will have problems establishing an honest and long-lasting intimate relationship. Self-Awareness is the single most important process you can embark on if you truly wish to get in touch with "who you really are", with your escape routes and damaging behavioural patterns and embark on empowering yourself to finally find a partner with whom to develop a healthy, mutual, loving intimate relationship.


Humans Are Naturally Selfish, Study Finds

Thu, 04 Aug 2016 10:13:11 -0500

It's an undeniable fact that all humans have a selfish side whether they accept it or not. Psychological data obtained from previous researchers suggested that humans tend to be selfish because they like the attention. Altering the Prisoner's Dilemma which is a classic matchup theory, selfish strategy, somehow, proved to be more productive.


The Emotional Power of Touch

Thu, 07 Apr 2016 07:54:11 -0500

Touch is the human need that conveys emotional and physical closeness. Intimate body contact is required for mother and child bonding. The symbiosis of touch and being touched is what makes for intimacy in marriage. The significance of touch can differ in cultures and must be respected.


Relationships: Why Do Some People Think That They Always Know Best?

Fri, 26 Aug 2016 06:38:36 -0500

While there can be moments when one is in a position where they do know what is best, there are also going to be moments when this is not the case. It could be said that this is simply part of being human.


The Wounded Healer's High Relationship Pastoral Care

Wed, 23 Mar 2016 06:34:42 -0500

NEARLY ten years ago the Spirit of God introduced me to the concept of 'travelling with.' At that time, He had a special task for me: to travel with my eldest daughter as she was finishing school and entering into tertiary training. She was in a vulnerable place, not knowing what she wanted to do, and yet having the distractions of an adult world opening up to her. The Spirit gave me the image of travelling with as a metaphor for how my relationship with her was changing.


What Can Happen When Someone Is No Longer Willing To Put Up With Other People's Projections?

Tue, 02 Aug 2016 12:09:43 -0500

Although some people have the tendency to take responsibility for what takes place within them, there are others who don't. Due to this, it can be normal for someone to believe that what is taking place externally has nothing to do with what is going on internally.


How to Show Love - Giving to Those That Which You Wish to Receive

Tue, 14 Jun 2016 08:58:29 -0500

It doesn't hurt to be the first one to give. Dare yourself to start the cycle of showing love to others. There is so much joy in giving rather than receiving.


Georgian and Victorian Intimate Secrets

Tue, 17 May 2016 11:01:11 -0500

The Georgians and Victorians have a stereotypical reputation as being repressed and reserved about their sexuality and sexual lives. This is largely undeserved as I discovered through my research recently.


A Short Essay on Violence

Tue, 22 Mar 2016 06:19:34 -0500

EARLY in my life, like everyone is, I was introduced to the inevitable concept of violence, and not only the concept - the myriad manifestation of violation in my life. Don't get me wrong. I wasn't 'abused' as a youngster. I 'suffered' quite as normal a childhood as any child could be blessed to have experienced; certainly the love of a father and mother doing their best to love each other, and their children.


Do You Love Your Partner to Bits and Pieces, Just to Find Yourself Heart-Broken and Alone - Again?

Fri, 01 Jul 2016 08:40:23 -0500

In today's uncertain world it is comforting to be with someone, have a a relationship, feeling psychologically and financially secure. But then, if the endless need for love drives you to sacrifice yourself, "fall in love" time and again only to be left alone, once more, feeling depressed, tired, disillusioned and disappointed, you may want to ask yourself what's going on.


How Gracious Understanding Makes Forgiveness Easier

Mon, 14 Mar 2016 07:04:15 -0500

THERE appears to me to be levels of learning around forgiveness. My first significant lessons surrounded a profound initial grief, and God gifted me with the ability to focus on what I'd done wrong as opposed to bothering too much with what the other person seemed to me to have done wrong.


Beginner's Guide to Relationship Building

Tue, 29 Mar 2016 07:51:51 -0500

Relationships. Everyone's got them. You may be wondering how to maintain them and build new ones.


Men, Cursed to Privilege, Blessed to Respect Women

Fri, 24 Jun 2016 10:30:55 -0500

Dating one of my girls, a privilege for any man lucky enough to have not just one daughter, but three, the concept of privilege came up... white male privilege. I talked about a fact we both knew about - me through burgeoning awareness; her through life experience. Male is the safer gender. Female is the at-risk gender... at risk of violence and ridicule, to name just two. Males more commonly transgress females than the other way around. And men learn as boys interacting with girls how women can be, in many cases, allowably mistreated.


Why Do Some People's Relationships Come To An End When They Start To Work On Themselves?

Sat, 26 Mar 2016 16:33:28 -0500

On one hand, one's life can be an expression of their true-self, and on the other hand, it can be an expression of their false-self. When it is an expression of the former, they are going to spend time with people who know they are.


Why Loving Enemies Is Easier Than Forgiving Friends

Wed, 06 Apr 2016 11:04:53 -0500

We forgive easily when we understand someone has hurt us who doesn't apparently have the capacity to love. But when a person betrays us who's earned our trust; that's a completely different matter.


Will The People That Someone Attracts Online Be Different To The People They Attract Offline?

Fri, 22 Apr 2016 06:05:31 -0500

If one was to run out of food in the past, they would need to go shopping; however, in today's world, this is no longer the case. The only thing that they need to do is to go online and to order what it is that they need.


Relationships: Why Do Some People Always Give Unsolicited Advice?

Mon, 11 Apr 2016 11:37:42 -0500

If one wanted to learn about something, they could read a book or search the internet. Along with this, they could also end up signing up for some kind of course online or in the real world.


Relationships: Why Do Some People Always Attract People Who Are Self-Centered?

Mon, 07 Mar 2016 06:22:32 -0600

Although relationships are based on give and take, it doesn't mean that this is something always takes place. Instead, one can be in a position where the majority of their relationships are out of balance.


The Secret of Great Relationships

Mon, 29 Feb 2016 10:20:00 -0600

What's the secret of discovering a true friend or lover? The Secret of Great Relationships? By the word "true" I mainly mean a relationship free of manipulation and ego based behaviors.


Relationships: Why Are Some People Always Critical Of Men/Women?

Tue, 15 Mar 2016 11:59:14 -0500

While someone could be critical of both men and women, they could also be in position where they have the tendency to criticise the opposite sex. And so if they do criticise the same sex, it could be something that rarely takes place.


When the Best of Family Makes Us Sad

Mon, 04 Apr 2016 06:45:41 -0500

TWENTY-FIRST birthday parties are as poignant as ever, as was my daughter's recently. I look at my four living children, especially my three-year-old son, and note, with sadness, that they all grow up. The other three have proven that.


Relationships - How to Make Your Honeymoon Last Forever

Fri, 19 Aug 2016 07:47:02 -0500

Love is a beautiful thing. We must be careful not to over-think it. Love and relationships are experiments and it's wise to accept that right from the beginning. There are no secret formula that are going to prevent or immunise you against pain. If you don't want pain, then you don't want love.


Relationships: Are You In A Relationship With Someone Who Is On The Rebound?

Mon, 06 Jun 2016 08:56:46 -0500

When someone starts a new relationship there is a strong chance that it will be their intention to be with someone who is available. In this case, one is in a position where they are ready to share their life with someone else.


Relationships: Is Being Curious An Important Part Of Experiencing Intimacy?

Mon, 25 Apr 2016 06:38:26 -0500

If one was to go and see their doctor, there is a strong chance that they would be the point off focus. This is primarily due to the fact that one is likely to be there because they have a problem and the doctor is there to assist them with what is taking place.


Relationships: Do Some People's Childhoods Set Them Up To Keep People At A Distance?

Fri, 15 Jul 2016 06:29:59 -0500

There are some people who are able to connect with others, and then there are others who are unable to do so. When one can do this, there is a strong chance that they are going to be used to having people in their life that they are close to.


Throwing Shadows

Mon, 29 Feb 2016 06:56:03 -0600

Courtship between a man and a woman does not stop after marriage. There is a fine line between challenge and interest. A puzzle with all the pieces in place is no fun.


Stuck in an Unsatisfying Relationship? Want to Know What to Do About It? How to Find True Intimacy?

Mon, 18 Jul 2016 07:48:44 -0500

If, for one reason or another, you are stuck in an unsatisfying relationship yet wish to find the way to make a positive change in your life and intimacy, developing Self-Awareness is the most important avenue to tread in order to do just that. It enables you to understand how you have shoot yourself in the foot until now, and helps you to realize what changes you need to go through in order to become empowered to find a successful and satisfying intimate relationship.


Relationships: Is Being Responsive Important?

Wed, 09 Mar 2016 14:09:10 -0600

If one wanted to form new relationships with others, they could pay attention to their appearance and then look into what they can do to improve it. Along with this, one could also look into what else they could do to improve themselves.


Understanding Spinsters

Tue, 26 Apr 2016 07:19:38 -0500

Spinsters are a minority group in society, who have missed the 'marriage' bus, due to some reason. More often than not, they excel in their professional life. They don't play all the roles in life, which a married person does. Do they live life fully? Are they lonely? There are 'spinster' objects too, in every home. Any object not being used for 6 months at a stretch, qualifies to be called a spinster; as it is not being used and is ageing. We must donate such articles during our lifetime to needy people or else our children will do this onerous job, after we depart.


Your Grass Is Greener

Fri, 01 Jul 2016 12:46:15 -0500

Irrespective of how handicapped you are or how bleak the situation is for you right now, truth is; you still are in a 'better' position as compared to someone else out there. Realize this and get committed to making things better rather than brooding.


Relationships: Why Are Some People Attracted To People Who Are Overbearing?

Mon, 18 Apr 2016 06:51:46 -0500

If one was to go shopping, they could end up trying a number of different things on, and while some of these items may be a good fit; there could be others that are not. When something fits them, they are going to feel comfortable; whereas when this is not the case, they are going to feel uncomfortable.


If You're Not In It For Love

Fri, 20 May 2016 14:35:32 -0500

There are all kinds of people in all kinds of places who are in relationships and marriages for all kinds of reasons... other than being in love. Why do we do it? Is it comfortable, honest or acceptable? That depends on your arrangements; there may even be a way to make it easier or more pleasant. What are the top 5 reasons we enter into this kind of arrangement?


Relationships: Does Someone Leave Their Childhood Behind When They Leave Home?

Tue, 24 May 2016 08:11:27 -0500

When someone gets on a plain to go home after they have been on holiday, it could be said that they are leaving the country behind. Once they get home, they can carry on with the rest of their life.


Why Is Forgiveness So Hard?

Thu, 12 May 2016 10:06:37 -0500

LIFE teaches us various lessons, and it's in our best interest, albeit it's an inconvenient truth, that those lessons aren't learned easily. The best lessons are tough lessons.


How to Move On When You're Hurt?

Tue, 19 Jul 2016 10:09:43 -0500

Have you ever been hurt? Have you ever waited for an apology that never came? Have you ever felt that someone needed to say "sorry" to you but they didn't do it? Let's say a friend throws a party without inviting you, or a co-worker misses a deadline that's crucial for your favorite project or your partner / spouse really hurts you. You may be gracious enough to forgive if you receive a sincere apology, but what happens if the other person refuses to say the words you long to hear?


Why Do People Really Want to Get Married - Or At Least Be In A Relationship - In Despair?

Thu, 07 Jul 2016 12:30:15 -0500

Some people tend to become desperate in finding for their other halves - "hopeless romantics" as they say - to the point that their situations become worse than expected. Going loco over having as spouse, or at least a boyfriend or girlfriend, has its own aspects similar to that of a human being. Whether a certain reason is good or bad depends on the specific aspect it is connected.


One Act of Kindness Expands!

Mon, 29 Feb 2016 09:01:23 -0600

Have you ever had someone be kind to you and you were surprised? This experience made you feel wonderful. What if you did random acts of kindness without expectation of reciprocation? The universe always takes notice and creates the boomerang effect. Kindness is returned to you tenfold!


Relationships: Why Do Some People Always Shame Others When They Open Up?

Mon, 08 Aug 2016 08:10:05 -0500

In order for someone to experience intimacy, it will be important for them to open up to others. However, this is not to say that they should simply open up to anyone, and this is because doing so would lead to problems.


Healing From A Relationship With A Narcissist

Tue, 26 Apr 2016 07:36:51 -0500

Healing from a relationship with a narcissist is a learned process. Learn it now!


Relationships: Why Do Some People Try Hide Their Partner From Their Ex?

Fri, 15 Jul 2016 06:29:11 -0500

When a relationship comes to an end, one can decide to take a break and to spend time by themselves. Through doing this, it can allow them to process the pain that they are experiencing, and then to gradually settle down.


When You Are Being Nice, Are You Loving Or Controlling?

Tue, 22 Mar 2016 11:51:29 -0500

There can be a big difference in intent between being nice and being loving. Being nice might be manipulative, while being loving means being authentic.


3 Ways to Move on From Toxic Relationships

Mon, 13 Jun 2016 08:34:57 -0500

You can always focus on the better future you want, but you won't get over the relationship if you run away from the bad feelings you have in your body and emotional brain. These bad feelings need to be felt, experienced and released.


What Do You Have to Give to Others?

Mon, 29 Feb 2016 07:43:24 -0600

Funny how things change over time. Years ago, homes often had three or more generations living together. My grandparents were a powerful influence on my life.


Relationships: Is Empathy An Important Part Of Experiencing Intimacy?

Mon, 18 Apr 2016 11:21:31 -0500

On one hand, one can have relationships with others that are deep, and on the other hand, they can have ones that are shallow. When it comes to the later, this could relate to the people they see at work or on the odd occasion, for instance.


Relationships: Do Some People's Childhoods Set Them Up To Expect Too Much From Others?

Mon, 23 May 2016 06:31:04 -0500

If one was to go shopping and they were to speak to someone who works in a store, it is highly unlikely that they will expect them to treat them like a close friend would. In fact, they might not know what to expect from them.


Getting Out of Your Own Way: The 3-Step Wardrobe Plan to Have Him Forget the Other Woman

Tue, 17 May 2016 10:48:42 -0500

Do you feel like your man isn't noticing you anymore? Do you walk by him in the living room and his eyes never stray from the video game, Walking Dead episode, or Lakers game? Are you worried that maybe some other woman is catching his eye?


Meeting Today Your Teacher of 30 Years Ago

Mon, 22 Aug 2016 06:51:50 -0500

Google is great. Made a search of my high school physical education teacher who was my cricket club captain, my coach, and mentor.


Relationships: Why Do Some People Only Know Who They Are When They Are In A Relationship?

Thu, 09 Jun 2016 07:39:36 -0500

While some people can find that they can function whether they are with someone or if they are by themselves, there are others who are not in the same position. In this case, one can find that they struggle when they are not with someone.


Relationships: Is Someone Only Friends With You Because They Are Attracted To You?

Mon, 28 Mar 2016 13:03:35 -0500

On one hand, there is where one will meet someone who they will become friends with, and on the other hand, there is reason why they will become friends with them. And when it comes to where they can meet someone, this is not going to be limited to one place.???


Family and Friends - To Regret or To Reconcile?

Tue, 05 Apr 2016 06:25:03 -0500

FAMILY celebrations don't always work out as we plan. Many end up with loved ones warring with each other. New wounds are inflicted or old ones are reopened. So much senseless grief and pain. There is hardly a more salient love than familial love - hurts more than it should, and we forgive more than we should. Rightly or wrongly, all this came to me in a single moment's vision.


Pretending Not to Be "Who You Really Are" Sabotages Your Intimate Relationships Time and Again

Wed, 13 Jul 2016 12:27:11 -0500

If your relationships fail time and again, isn't it time for you to begin to understand what's going on here? Could it be that your present yourself as "loving" and "caring" person, but these behaviors have become so exaggerated to the point of neglecting your own needs within a relationship, a fact that makes others not appreciate and respect you? Could it be that you are driven by needs and fears (of which you might not be aware) which control you and cause you to sabotage your relationships time and again?


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